You know the one thing I have always hated hearing? Relationship Goals. I never knew what it meant when someone would say #relationship goals. I am going to share with you why I dislike that term and other terms that deal with relationships.
A picture and a quote can only say so much about a person. Are you saying relationship goals because you are not in a relationship and you want to be in one? Or are you saying relationship goals because your unhappy in your relationship? Specify your #relationshipgoals
Another term I hate is hubby and bae. When someone says are you happy your hubby is home? Like whats a hubby? Where did this term even come from? When people say this to me its like rubbing two sand papers together in my ear. And who came out with the word bae. Before the urban dictionary made “bae” girlfriend and boyfriend, the definition actually stands for poop. Do you want to be called poop?
Another term I can not understand is daddy? Like I have never been comfortable with this word. When you call your child or husband daddy. Thats like my husband calling me mama or mommy. Like why would he do that? Your daddy is someone who helped bring you in this world. Not your partner.
Relationship explanation- why is it that you have to describe to me the kind of relationship you are in? Don’t get me wrong I have had my fair shares of heartbreak, but what happens between you and your spouse should be between you and your spouse. Thats another thing using social media to put each other on blast. We are all guilty of it, trust me I have done it in the past to, but we have to get out of the habit. I am going to give you some advice my mother gave me.
Moms Advice- Single people can not be friends with someone who is married it just don’t work that way, because in the end someone is cheating. Also what happens in your relationship, stays in your relationship. Don’t go blabbing it to your girlfriends because that same girlfriend can be a snake in the grass trying to steel your man.
-Trust me mama always right!
Another thing, never let you husband put something else before your relationship and you shouldn’t either. In order to be in a functioning relationship you guys both have to be on the same page.
Also men out here in these streets being disrespectful, what happened to the old school way where you ask me out on a date and we get to know each other before we move on to second base. At least treat me to dinner.
Why are married couples bringing children into an unfunctioning relationship, there are ways to protect yourself. Trust me I know, I follow the calendar method just to prevent pregnancy because I know at the moment I am not ready for children, so when women or men say we didn’t expect to get pregnant. Well what did you learn in sex ed all those years back? How to get pregnant?
Okay guys I promise I am done!!
Remember stay BEAUTIFUL